Friday, 27 October 2017

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Why Failed Relationships Aren’t Actually Failures: 5 Lessons on Love That Doesn’t Last

“Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.” ~Lord Alfred Tennyson

I’ve always loved relationships—the euphoria of early romance, the comfort of built intimacy, and the experience of adventuring through life with someone else. While there are some pretty snazzy parts of being single, I was a sucker for love from a young age.

Now, I also didn’t meet my fiancĂ© until I was thirty—which means I’ve seen my share of the romantic downside as well. With the highs of love come the lows of romantic breakdown: heartache, loss, and the grief of things not working out. Regardless of how they happen, breakups aren’t easy, and it’s common to think of a relationship’s ending as a failure.

But is it?

The dictionary defines failure as “the nonperformance of success or expectation.” If the point of a relationship is to be together until death-do-us-part (or until we ride off into the sunset and the credits roll) then yes, a breakup is not exactly a success.

But what if that’s not the point? Maybe we can still strive for a love that lasts while reframing our ideas of the loves that didn’t.

The following is a compilation of lessons I’ve learned from my own “failed” relationships, a mixtape of why “failed” love isn’t actually a failure at all.

While our definition of that word may vary, I encourage you to read on with an open mind. There just might be more success in your own past than you previously thought.

1. Relationships teach us about ourselves.

Whenever one of my previous relationships was coming to an end, it usually began with the finding of incompatibilities—disagreements as small as where to eat or as large as whether or not to have kids.

The inconsistencies in beliefs often showed me more about myself than they did the other person. I had to date an atheist to find out how much I really wanted to believe in God. I had to date someone who liked to stay home to realize how much I liked being social. While finding these incompatibilities was anything but fun, in retrospect I see they were a map to finding myself.

2. Relationships show us where we can grow.

There’s a saying that I’ve always liked: “Relationships pour miracle grow on our character defects.” When I was in a relationship that pushed my buttons, I realized which buttons were there to be pushed: things about myself I wouldn’t have noticed until another person made them glaringly apparent.

For example, dating someone with a lot of female friends showed me that I was pretty insecure; while at first his social circle seemed to be the problem (how dare he hang out with other women, right?) over time I realized that it was my own self-esteem that needed attention. Although this “button pusher” relationship didn’t stick, it showed me where my work was.

Through examining my buttons (rather than the button pusher), I was better equipped to do the self-work that would allow me to show up more fully for every future relationship, romantic or not.

3. Relationships allow us to practice vulnerability.

It’s pretty scary to open our hearts up to another person. After all, none of us really know what the future holds, right? Those of us who have experienced our fair share of heartache have even more reason to be cautious: We know what it’s like to lay our hearts out on the line and give someone the option of smashing them to smithereens. (While it’s helpful to avoid this heart-smashing type of relationship, it happens to the best of us, and the possibility is always there.)

Yet, being vulnerable in the face of potential loss is truly the bread and butter of life. Sure, we could play our cards close to our vest and lessen the likelihood of possible harm—but in turn, we also lessen the likelihood of truly being known.

Regardless of how a relationship has ended, when I’ve allowed myself to fully open my heart to another person I am reminded that it was not a waste at all; it was a brick in the road of living my fullest life.

4. No love is ever wasted.

When in the throes of a relationship, we often have our heart set on not just our partner, but on our future with that partner. This is often the hardest thing about a relationship ending: You don’t just lose what you’ve shared, but the imagined future that you’d included the other in.

When that future vanishes, it’s common to look back on the shared past with regret. But what if expressing love, kindness, and shared intimacy is an end in and of itself?

As humans we love to keep our eyes on the outcome and the finish line, but forget that it’s the journey to that mountaintop that shapes us. As the quote above reads, “Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.”

Whether the act of love is in the present or the past, it existed all the same—and if we allow it to do so, it can remind us of the most beautiful side of the human condition.

5. Our past loves played an important role in our lives.

Each person that journeys beside us on the road of life not only shapes who we will become, but also how we feel as we get there.

My first love and I moved across the state to pursue our individual dreams. While our relationship didn’t last, we were a safe haven for the other in an unfamiliar and daunting time.

On the flip side, those unhealthy relationships that, on the surface, appear all wrong can help us more wisely choose a partner in the future.

While it would be great to learn lessons from other people’s experiences, most of us have to find out what we want by trial and error—from dating a few (or a bunch) of the wrong people before we can identify the right one. Even the most painful relationships in my past helped me learn who I wanted to be with (as well as who I wanted to be) in the future.

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Some endings are inevitable. Being able to see the positives in our past doesn’t mean those relationships have any business in our present. It does, however, mean that instead of looking at what we lost when something ended, we can remember what we gained as well: perspective, strength, and experience.

If failure is the nonperformance of success, then let’s demand to expect only growth from ourselves, and define success as the amount of love that we gave. Because love is never lost…

It simply changes shape.

About Melissa Pennel

Melissa Pennel is a coffee drinker, over thinker, and empowerment coach in Northern California. Find more of her writing on her blog. Catch up with Melissa on Instagram, Facebook, or on her website.

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Thursday, 26 October 2017

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Heulandite is a high vibration stone that takes you on inner journeys, helps you to release past life karma. Both green and peachy white stones aid connection to past lives in Atlantis or Lemuria.



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ME Association review of Unrest in Parliament: “I cannot recall a parliamentary meeting where we have had so much genuine interest in ME/CFS” | 26 October 2017

 


By Dr Charles Shepherd, Hon Medical Adviser to the ME Association.

As ME Association members will know, the Rt Hon John Bercow MP – Speaker of the House of Commons – is one of our Patrons and John has helped us in various ways over the years. But we have never asked John if we could make use of the State Rooms in the Speaker’s Residence for a high profile parliamentary meeting on ME/CFS. This is something we have been saving for a special occasion – and a parliamentary screening of ‘Unrest’ has turned out to be a very good choice indeed!

So, I’d like to thank John and his staff at the House of Commons for all the help and advice they have given us over the past few months in organising this event. Big thanks are also due to Lucy Wilson and her team at Shella Films (the UK production company that has been organising publicity and screenings of the film) and three ME Association trustees in particular – Martine Ainsworth-Wells, Nicki Strong and Nicola Anson – who have spent an enormous amount of time and effort organising what turned into a very well attended and successful parliamentary event that lasted almost two hours.

I was the last person to leave the House of Commons at just after 2.30pm!

ME Association Trustee, Martine Ainsworth-Wells, commented:

 

“As a Trustee for the ME Association, I was proud to go to the Houses of Parliament on Tuesday 24th October, where our Patron John Bercow hosted a screening of the Sundance award-winning film ‘Unrest’, in the Speaker’s State Rooms.

 

“Our aim was to raise awareness of the seriousness of ME/CFS, why we need help to find a cure, and to inform MPs of the economic cost of the illness in the UK.

 

“MPs heard that in the UK, 250,000 people are directly affected by ME/CFS and many more are their carers. Family life, education, and the ability to work can all be severely disrupted.

 

“Unrest shows the profound consequences of ignorance and neglect by our public health, medical, and research systems on patients and their families, who are left impoverished, often without any support to confront a life-changing illness and frequently disbelieved.

 

“The film is hard hitting, raw and heart-breaking, showcasing experiences many of us have had first hand. That alone should make a difference.

 

“Sadly, as we know, money talks and hence the Countess of Mar presented the latest estimates on the economic cost of ME/CFS in the UK: £3.3billion pounds per year! This must now inspire elected policymakers to be stronger allies and support a better future for all.

 

“The ME Association wants a much better outcome for patients and the economy and I sincerely hope that today’s event shows that political and medical experts are coming together to learn more about these difficulties, to listen and be part of the effective team that finally lifts the stigma associated with ME/CFS.

 

“Dr Charles Shepherd called for a level playing field for ME/CFS. I hope today’s event explained clearly why this is so vitally important.”

 

 

Given the fact that MPs are busy people, and constantly moving from one meeting room to another, it was great to see how many stayed for all the presentations and for the film – as well as others who just popped in for a short while. I cannot recall a parliamentary meeting, including many years of attending the All Party Parliamentary Group on ME meetings, where we have had so much genuine interest in ME/CFS – and this included several high-profile names from all political parties and from all parts of the UK.

The format to the meeting worked well – a slightly delayed start was caused by the fact that Jen Brea, Jessica Taylor-Bearman, part of the Shella film team and myself were waiting for wheelchair assistance to take us under the Westminster Bridge road from Portcullis House to the House of Commons. We finally managed to arrive 10 minutes after the meeting was supposed to start!

But this meant that MPs could mingle and talk to charity and film representatives while waiting – as well as with our paediatric medical adviser Dr Nigel Speight, infectious diseases specialist Dr William Weir, members of the UK ME/CFS Biobank team and Professor Jonathan Edwards.

The Countess of Mar gave the first presentation. This focussed on the enormous cost of ME/CFS to the UK economy in terms of lost taxation, benefit payments, medical costs etc. and the findings of a new report that has estimated this to be around £3.5 billion per annum – a subject that is always of interest to MPs!

ME Association chairman, Neil Riley, was unable to attend the event because of his M.E. but his wife, Mary, and daughter, Rachel, attended in his stead:

 

“Rachel said that she had spoken with two lovely MPs – Carol Monaghan (SNP) and Lady Sylvia Hermon (IUP).

 

“The latter said she was very interested in helping people with illnesses that have little support from Government or from private funding.

 

“Sylvia Hermon’s husband had died of dementia and she told Rachel that there was too much money going into cancer with so little into less known illnesses.”

 

 

I followed with a presentation which emphasised three very basic actions that would significantly help to improve the lives of 250,000 people throughout the UK who have ME/CFS:

  • Improving both undergraduate and postgraduate medical education on ME/CFS – so that people are given an early and accurate diagnosis
  • A properly funded biomedical research programme that encourages the development of four existing and emerging centres of excellence here in the UK – the ME Biobank in London, and the research centres at the Universities of Oxford and Newcastle and in Norwich
  • Access to physician-led hospital based management services that are based on a biomedical model of causation and provide sound individual advice on all aspects of management

The main stumbling block here isn’t cost – it is far more a question of persuading the medical establishment and government that people with ME/CFS are not getting a fair deal when it comes to the way their illness is both researched and managed.

We then had a screening of a 20-minute segment from the film, which was followed by a very moving presentation from Jen Brea, and then an opportunity for questions and informal discussion.

ME Association Trustee, Nicola Anson, commented:

 

“It was very encouraging to see just how many attended the screening event today and how long they remained to network with others.

 

“Vince Cable arrived very early to show his support for our work and to express how important it is. He had to rush to attend a debate but said he wanted to make sure we knew that we had his support.

 

“The event was attended by MPs from Labour, Conservative, Liberal Democrat and even DUP.  All expressed concern for their constituents who wanted more to be done for ME/CFS patients. This did not seem to be in question.

 

“There were questions asked about degrees of severity, whether people recovered themselves over time, and where specialist care could be obtained. 

 

“Margaret, Charles and Jen set out the economic cost of not investing more in biomedical research, the current state of services and research, plus the considerable human impact on patients and their families.

 

“Representatives from many ME charities attended and were very keen to collaborate to move forward, and some of the medical professionals who attended expressed a keen interest in carrying out research and making the case for more funding.

 

“I got the impression that the MPs are aware that something must be done and are keen to support the ME/CFS lobby.”

 

 

Talking to people in the interconnecting rooms that formed this impressive venue it was clear that they found the film to be powerful and thought provoking. The parliamentarians also appear to have grasped the key messages being made about the urgent need for better medical education, a biomedical research strategy here in the UK that would link in with the NIH initiatives in America, and appropriate management of this illness for everyone – the young, and the severely affected, in particular – wherever they live in the UK.

The next step is clearly to maintain the momentum that this event has achieved in relation to parliamentary interest. This is something that we will be discussing at the Forward ME Group meeting next week – where the long-awaited review of the NICE guideline on ME/CFS is the main topic on the agenda!

Dr Charles Shepherd.

 


Attendance list of MPs and Members of the House of Lords

The final list of MPs and members from the House of Lords who attended is as follows (alphabetical, left to right). There were 53 in total:

Abbot, Diane (MP, Labour) Addington, Dom (Lords, Lib. Dem.) Andrew, Gwynne (MP, Labour)
Bailey, Adrian (MP, Labour) Bottomley, Peter (MP, Conservative) Burghart, Alex (MP, Conservative)
Cable, Vince (MP, Lib. Dem.) Cadbury, Ruth (MP, Labour) Carmichael, Alistair (MP, Lib. Dem.)
Chalk, Alex (MP, Conservative) Chope, Christopher (MP, Conservative) Cox, Geoffrey (MP, Conservative)
Cunningham, Jim (MP, Labour) Davey, Sir Edward (MP, Lib. Dem.) Davies, Glyn (MP, Conservative)
Drew, David (MP, Labour) Evans, Chris (MP, Labour) Gaffney, Hugh (MP, Labour)
Gildernew, Michelle (MP, Sinn Fein) Grady, Patrick, (MP, SNP) Grogan, John (MP, Labour)
Haigh, Louise (MP, Labour) Healey, John (MP, Labour) Hermon, Lady Sylvia (MP, Indep. Unionist)
Illminster, Lord Armstrong (Lords, Crossbench) Johnson, Diana (MP, Labour) Little-Pengelly, Emma (MP, DUP)
Lloyd, Tony (MP, Labour) Madders, Justin (MP, Labour) Maskey, Paul (MP, Sinn Fein)
McCarthy, Kerry (MP, Labour) Monaghan, Carol (MP, SNP) Morgan, Nicky (MP, Conservative)
Newton, Sarah (MP, Conservative) O’Neill, Baroness Onora (Lords, Crossbench) Pound, Stephen (MP, Labour)
Quinn, Jeremy (MP, Conservative) Ruane, Christopher (MP, Labour) Russell-Moyle, Lloyd (MP, Labour (Co-op))
Shannon, Jim (MP, DUP) Sheppard, Tommy (MP, SNP) Sherriff, Paula (MP, Labour)
Simpson, David (MP, DUP) Sobel, Alex (MP, Labour) Spencer, Mark (MP, Conservative)
Streeter, Gary (MP, Conservative) Tami, Mark (MP, Labour) Thomas, Gareth (MP, Labour)
Thomas, Derek (MP, Conservative) Timms, Stephen (MP, Labour) Tolhurst, Kelly (MP, Conservative)
Twist, Liz (MP, Labour) Thangam, Debbonaire (MP, Labour)

 


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Join me this evening as we connect with our spirit guides and ancestors through meditation and ritual. As we get closer to Halloween the the thinner the veil gets, As we connect we work on healing through the womb (hará for men). We will have drinks, snacks and I will be drawing the women’s runes with henna for who ever would like. Happy Thursday! #samhain #halloweeen #ancestors #spiritguides #healing #metaphysical #spiritualhealing #energyhealing #meditation #spiritualhealingmiami #reiki #crystalhealing #wombhealing #magic #miami #miamilife #miamievents #priestess #priestessmiami #om #namaste



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